Love & Obedience

If you love me, you will obey what I command. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever—the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you. (Jn 14:15-17)

Fear and obedience are tied together. If we fear, we will be motivated by that fear to be obedient. Jn 14:15 shows us that love and obedience are also tied together and this produces a more mature form of obedience, because love casts out fear, for fear has to do with punishment (1 Jn 4:18). If we love, we will be motivated by that love towards obedience. I have previously written about this in Levels Of Obedience on 8/15/2013.

If we were to take verses 15-16 by themselves and look for understanding in them out of the context of scripture in which they are found, we would end up in trouble at this point. Out of context , they seem to be saying that if we are obedient to what Jesus has commanded we will then receive the Holy Spirit at a later point. However, when we look at them with vs. 17— the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you, we can see that the disciples had knowledge of the Holy Spirit and were looking towards an indwelling of the Holy Spirit. I believe Jesus was saying to these that obedience to His teachings would bring about an indwelling of the Holy Spirit and a deeper and fuller relationship between Him and these disciples. Verse 16 in the Amplified Bible is worded: And I will ask the Father, and He will give you another Comforter (Counselor, Helper, Intercessor, Advocate, Strengthener, and Standby), that He may remain with you forever--(Note: Another Comforter of the same kind that Jesus is).

This is not the case for those who know Christ today, because if we know Christ, we are already indwelled by the Holy Spirit (Ro 8:9) Therefore we know these scriptures are not saying to us that if we are obedient to Jesus we will receive the Holy Spirit. I do believe, however, that we can safely say that obedience to Christ will bring about for us a more intimate and deeper relationship with the Holy Spirit.

Paul said in 1 Corinthians 13:14 the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all. I like the way the Message records this verse: the amazing grace of the Master, Jesus Christ, the extravagant love of God, the intimate friendship of the Holy Spirit, be with all of you (emphasis mine).

Predetermined Obedience

But even if he does not, we want you to know, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the image of gold you have set up." (Daniel 3:18 NIV)

Some decisions have to be made before their time. If you wait until the moment of temptation, you may be swayed to make the wrong choice. The decision Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego made not to bow down to the golden image of the king was made when they began to serve God and predetermined not to serve or worship any other god or image.

The decision Daniel made to continue to pray to God after the kings decree that petitions could be made to none other except him, was made long before the decree. His initial decision to serve God was to serve Him alone and none other.

A false god or idol is anything we put before our relationship with God. If we give ourselves to or engage in anything that we know goes against God’s revealed will, we are serving an idol, another god. Many gods will reveal themselves to us and attempt to persuade us to bow down before them. Now, we wouldn’t necessarily recognize them as gods, thinking of them more as desires or the love of the world as found in 1 John 2: 15-16:

Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For everything in the world—the cravings of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does—comes not from the Father but from the world.

Let’s take a common one like adultery. The time to make up your mind you will not commit it is the moment you get married. If you wait until you are tempted to make the decision, you are in trouble. 
 

About any temptation we would fall to, we need to have already predetermined not to fall to it. And then, when the temptation comes, we need to FLEE. One of our problems is we haven’t made up our minds yet, and when the temptation comes, we try to resist it while making up our minds about it. Scripture tells us to flee temptation, not to try and resist it.

Here’s a good plan: predetermine not to sin against God, and then flee temptation. The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever. (1 John 2:17) Let us predetermine to be always faithful to God and depend upon and trust in Him to bring it about.

Could You Tell Me Which Way Jesus Went?

As far as direction goes, God is everywhere, so no matter which direction we go, God is already there. Any direction we take is towards Him. The direction God wants us to go is framed in obedience. When we walk in obedience, we are following Jesus. When we walk in love, we are following Jesus. When we are walking in the Spirit, we are following Jesus. When we are denying ourselves, we are following Jesus. When we are walking in humility, we are following Jesus. When we are being persecuted for His sake, we are following Jesus. When we are feeding the poor, we are following Jesus. When we are visiting orphans and widows in their distress, we are following Jesus.

Following Jesus is not a direction...it's a lifestyle.

 Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me. (Lk 9:23 NIV)

Levels of Obedience

“Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed–not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence … “  (Php 2:12, NIV)

Obedience is a heart issue. When I was a child, I obeyed my earthly father out of fear and concern of what would happen to me if I didn’t. As I got older, I realized obedience was for my own good. As I continued to mature, obeying was more a matter of not wanting to disappoint my parents. This is still not the level of obedience God has called us to.

God calls us to a higher level of obedience, a mature obedience. When I first came to Christ, I obeyed out of fear and concern of what would happen to me if I didn’t. As I got older, I realized obedience was for my own good. As I continued to mature, obeying was more a matter of not wanting to disappoint God. Eventually I came to a place where because of my love for God, I didn’t want to do anything to offend Him or hinder my relationship with Him. 

When I was a child and my father was around I would be obedient to his requirements.  f he went somewhere, maybe I would be obedient and maybe I wouldn’t. In our verse today, Paul is calling the believers to a higher level of obedience. He says “as you have been obedient in my presence, now be obedient in my absence.”

“Respond in my absence, just as you would if I was there among you.” The obedience Paul is talking about is the kind that is a “working out” of what God has “put in”. There are things that accompany salvation, and these things are to be evidenced in our lives. Not because Paul is there, or a preacher, or Sunday school teacher, or school teacher, or a policeman, or fireman, or Mom, or Dad, but because there has been a change wrought in our heart and we want to do what is right. And we want to do it not because of fear of punishment, but because of love, appreciation, and awe.

You see, God is doing something inside of us. He is giving us the desire to act in accordance with His Word. And as if that wasn’t enough, He is also giving us the ability to do the things He wants us to!  Php 2:12-13 from the NIV Bible says:

Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed–not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence–continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.

Do The Good

So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin. (James 4:17, ESV)

Remember when we thought that all we had to do was to not do wrong things?  It seemed so much simpler then, after all, we like to know what is “out” so we can stay away from it and be thought of as good. I mean there is nothing like a good “do not list” that we can adhere to and then feel good about ourselves, if we can manage it. But at some point we find out that it is not enough to not do bad stuff, we must also do good stuff. 

Take for example Ephesians 4:28, NIV:

He who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with his own hands, that he may have something to share with those in need.

Not only is the thief to deal with his sin (stealing), he is to become gainfully employed (thereby dealing with the reason), and he is then to then help others in need so they won’t resort to stealing. This is getting a bit more complicated than a “do list” and “do not list”.

Now, I don’t know about you, but I can see stopping the stealing and getting a job, but then having to give to others so they won’t steal? My old nature does not like that!  But, of course, we are not called to live out of our old nature but out of our new nature.

Ephesians 4:28 tells us we are to deal with our sins, be gainfully employed, helping others and helping them get on the right path. But it is not a list we follow, for we may as well be under the Law if we are going to do “lists”. It is a matter of the heart sensitized to God, the mind renewed by the Word, and living a transformed life that is offered as a living sacrifice to God - lived for Him and His purposes.

We know it is a sin to do wrong things, but the Word also tells us that it is a sin to not do the right things we know to do. It is always in season to be obedient to the Word and the Holy Spirit, and to not do so is wrong.

“Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.”Eph 4:28, NLT

Storm Preparation

A Strong Foundation Needed

I will show you what it's like when someone comes to me, listens to my teaching, and then obeys me. It is like a person who builds a house on a strong foundation laid upon the underlying rock. When the floodwaters rise and break against the house, it stands firm because it is well built.  Lk 6:47-48, NLT)

Well, this certainly is not a hard one to figure out.  The problem is, it’s the following through that brings the desired results, not the knowing how.  Like about anything else in life, “know how” without application will get you “no where.”  The wise pay attention to what they hear and act upon it.  The foolish  do not pay attention to what they hear and do not act upon it

“But anyone who listens and doesn't obey is like a person who builds a house without a foundation. When the floods sweep down against that house, it will crumble into a heap of ruins." (Lk 6:49, NLT)

If we want to have the type of foundation necessary for living the abundant life that Jesus came to give us, here are a few thoughts that will help:

“ … he is like who comes to me and hears my words and puts them into practice.”

(Lk 6:47< NIV)

In the words of Jesus:

Ÿ  Come to Me - We must deliberately seek out Jesus, spending time with Him daily, getting to know Him, getting to know His word, and developing an intimate relationship with Him.

Ÿ  Hear My Words - We must spend time listening for and learning His voice, sitting in His presence, and interacting with and in the Word of God.

Ÿ  Put them into practice - We must believe and do what the Word says.  Not just one time, but over and over, all the time, as a lifestyle.

In this way we will develop a solid foundation that will enable us and our families to stand firm and safely come through the storms of this life.