Good Soil Has Great Potential

“But he that received seed into the good ground … “  (Mt 13:23, KJV)

I think God likes to have a good time with me. I don’t mean like hanging out, shooting the breeze and going places together. Not that God wouldn’t enjoy that kind of stuff, it just that I’m not all that much fun to hang out with. Maybe a better way of saying it would be that sometimes I think God likes to have a good time at my expense.

You know how some people are pretty good at doing some unusual thing? I think most, if not all, of us have at least one thing we’re pretty good at. Well, I can get my foot in my mouth without much effort. Now the folks listening may not know I have done it, but God does. Let me talk long enough and I will set a trap with my mouth that my foot can’t get out of.

One night at a friend’s house, someone asked me to read aloud the parable of the sower. I did that and when I had finished he asked me ”What kind of soil is your heart?” Without missing a beat I answered “Good soil.”

I was driving home later, feeling pretty good. It had been a good evening and I felt that I had handled myself rather well. I’m driving along and God says “See that field?” I look beside me and there is a big field. “If it was good soil and I planted a lot of seeds in it, how much fruit would there be?” Again not missing a beat, I answered “A lot of fruit Lord.”

Now, I know that some of you are already seeing that I am fixing to have another life changing moment. I never saw it coming. After a moment of silence, I hear ”I have planted a lot of seed in your heart.” Wow, it hit me like a ton of bricks.

It wasn’t so much in reaction to what was said, so much as to what had been  implied. “I have planted a lot of seed in your heart” was what was said.  “And there’s not much fruit” was what was implied. Well, that pretty much sucked the wind out of my sails, and there I was repenting again.

Two more thoughts. First of all, we don’t have as many people fooled as we think we do. Secondly, isn’t it amazing how much God can say without hardly  saying anything? 

Ox In The Stall

Where there are no oxen, the manger is clean, but abundant crop come by the strength of the ox.  (Proverbs 14:4, ESV)

I really like this verse. Not only can it be applied to many different situations, It fits really well with marriage. I like to break the verse down like this:

no oxen / no dung

have oxen / have benefit - along with dung

What is necessary is to realize that while a relationship brings problems we wouldn’t have to deal with as singles, there is much benefit that comes from being in relationship with someone.

Without an ox, the stall stays clean. It does not get dirty. The dung does not have to be cleaned out because there is no ox in it making a mess.  But there are some things that the strength of the ox can bring that would be of great benefit. It does make plowing a lot easier, and a much larger area can be worked. The harvest is more plentiful.

In our analogy here, the husband is the ox. And most husbands do make messes.  They are not much help around the house, and even make the house more messy than it would be if they were not in it. Hopefully though, they do bring benefit to the marriage and household that outweighs the disadvantage of the messes they also make.

What the wife needs to focus on, is the benefit of the husband (ox), the strength he brings to the relationship and household.The harvest should be more plentiful because of what the husband supplies. 

What the husband needs to remember is that he does make the wife’s life a bit more difficult, and he better make sure he is using his strength and abilities to bring benefit and abundance to the home.

What the wife needs to remember is that dung is not all there is to her husband.  He brings good to the life they have together, supplying things she can’t, and overall, making her life better.

Of course, my wife sometimes gets me confused with the dung!